Thursday, January 29, 2009

What Men Want?

What do men want from women? It is the most dreaded question in every women's mind. Do not fret, there are four qualities in a woman that any man would be attracted to.

(1) Confidence

You don’t have to be the most beautiful women to be confident. All that is needed is the belief that you are worthy of his efforts. Don’t make the mistake of self-praising in front of him. It would be more interesting for him to discover the qualities in you by himself without you pointing them out. And the more he discovers the more he would want to know about you.

(2) Trust

This is something that men rate very high when you ask what men want from women. They don’t like their woman to be suspicious about them all the time. They would rather have a woman who would believe in their words. A man would prefer a woman who trusts him and doesn’t think he cheats on her. A nagging woman or one that is always asking questions about his activities and friends would put him off.

(3) Kindness

This is important to a man but do not fake it. If you pretend to be kind just to impress the man, you should know that the truth would be revealed sooner or later. Kindness can mean appreciating and complimenting the waiter in the restaurant, to thanking him for a ride home. It should be genuine. Making this a habit will not only get you good response from your man, but also from every one around you. Kindness is always noticed and appreciated by everyone.

(4) Commitment

If you find him to be the mr right, it is better to not express your desire to be committed immediately. Give him some time to confirm his feelings. If you rush such things, it would only scare him away. Always try and not think too far ahead in terms of commitment, give him some breathing space. Men take a little more time than women when deciding about commitment.

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