Smart Moves To Get A Man Interested In You

(1) Get Him Attracted to You

Just like in any war, good planning and perfect execution is the key. The purpose here is to get the man so attracted to you that there would be no other options for him - but to get interested in you. Men by nature love to chase women, which means you should not be the one pursuing him or at least it should not look like you are the one pursuing him.

(2) Let Him Pursue You

The first strategy is to be very subtle. This does not mean you don’t show any signs of interest in him but instead, be very careful not to show interest more than necessary but at the same time you have to make him think he is the one that is pursuing you. The best way to do this would be to put yourself visible within his sight. When you feel even the slightest of response from him, pull back a little. It should look like there is no void in your life even without him. Try to keep yourself occupied and be available to him every time.

(3) Independence

Declaring your feelings for him might put him off and he may not even value your love. Make him think that he has to work hard to get your love so that he values it.. The next strategy would be to show him that you are independent. Men just love women who are emotionally, financially independent. Small things like not making him pay all the time for a meal could work wonders.

(4) Men Need Space

You should be careful not to get too emotionally attached and forget about other aspects of your life. Men usually lose interest in the woman who seems to be completely focused on him and has no other things in her life that’s interesting. Men are scared of women who are very dependent on their them emotionally all the time. Do not get carried away and be realistic.

Following these simple steps can go a long way towards getting mens' attention.