Have you ever met a man who touched your heart, and would like to know how he feels about you? Perhaps you met in a group and did not even get the opportunity to talk with him, although you may have noticed that he recognized your presence. You would like to know whether it was just mere coincidence that he seemed to be watching you, or perhaps you were simply day dreaming. Is it possible for you to know the truth and have peace of mind?
There are 5 important signs that will help you to determine his interest in you. These signs will let you know that he is also trying to find a way of getting closer to you.
1. He talks to another person about you
If you find out that he has been asking around about who you are, or has specifically asked some of your acquaintances that he would like to know you better, this shows that he is interested in you. A guy will hardly ask such things when he is simply casually interested in you. You should also be aware that when he comments about your good qualities to another person, you may actually be the real target, and he hopes the message will find its way to you.
2. His look
As much as he may try to appear neutral, the look of an interested man will betray his true feelings. His eyes will linger for a moment when you 'happen' to look at each other, and you may even notice a faint smile.
3. The way he talks
An interested man will seize the opportunity to get closer to you and strike up a casual conversation. He may ask you a few odd questions, which just prepare the way for the main one - that is, whether you are going out with anyone.
Take note that wearing a ring may ruin your chances before they even begin. This is due to the fact that the man will not be able to distinguish the finger your ring is on when he is not close enough - and hence he may be discouraged from getting any closer.
4. He just happens to drop by
If the man appears out of the blue where you are, there are very slim chances that it's a coincidence. It is more likely that he has taken the effort to know your schedule in order to make him available. Take a closer look at his expression during this 'chance' meeting.
5. You are a likeable character
When people generally take interest in you, it is highly unlikely that he won't be interested as well. You should therefore take the initiative to make yourself interesting when you would like to get men's attention. Sharpen your good qualities and make them outstanding.
When you have prepared the ground in this way, he will make his approach. When he does, you should make him feel comfortable by being friendly without appearing eager for his company.
Sunday, November 29, 2009
Thursday, November 19, 2009
How to Win the Man of Your Life and Make Him Yours
If you are looking for a marriage relationship and have even found a suitable guy, there is one question that may keep bothering you. What should I do to make him wholly mine? You may wonder. This question may bother you even more in case your boyfriend seems to have no interest in pushing things any further than they are at present.
Are you going to wait forever for him to make the proposal? Isn't there anything you can do in order to speed up the process? Yes, there is. So long as you know how to go about it, you will be able to make your boyfriend think of establishing a more lasting relationship with you.
Here are some of the things that will help you in this effort.
You are not alone
If you are facing the issue of a non committal boyfriend, you should take heart, as this situation is more common than you realize. This therefore means that there is really nothing particularly wrong with either you or your boyfriend. Rather, it is something that tends to take place naturally.
Consider your focus
Nearly every woman who would like a man to commit to a life-long relationship will push every other thing at the back of her mind. This issue tends to become her focal point. Unfortunately, this is something that can scare off your boyfriend. No man would enjoy a feeling of being trapped, yet this is what he may feel in case you dream of is to make him yours. All you seem to think about is getting married to him. If the man gets the idea that you are pushing him towards a commitment, you will be more likely to push him away instead.
Lead - from the background
Men get the thrill out of being hunters. On the other hand, they easily become frightened when they realize that they are the ones being pursued. So although you should take a leading role in shaping your relationship, you will succeed when you do it from the background. Let him have something to chase in you instead. For instance, just make yourself scarce to give him the chance to come after you. Only a man who does not mind losing you will take things easy when there is the risk of your slipping away.
On the other hand, if he knows that you are always available; your boyfriend will relax his efforts of making any commitment. Get him out of this comfort by being less available without giving any excuses. Let him realize that you have an independent life that is not tied up with his.
Watch your words
Talking about your expectations in a marriage will not make your boyfriend decide to go ahead and propose. If you want him to think of marriage, you should not talk about the topic at all. In addition, avoid doing anything that brings the idea of marriage, including the books and magazines that you leave lying around.
Are you going to wait forever for him to make the proposal? Isn't there anything you can do in order to speed up the process? Yes, there is. So long as you know how to go about it, you will be able to make your boyfriend think of establishing a more lasting relationship with you.
Here are some of the things that will help you in this effort.
You are not alone
If you are facing the issue of a non committal boyfriend, you should take heart, as this situation is more common than you realize. This therefore means that there is really nothing particularly wrong with either you or your boyfriend. Rather, it is something that tends to take place naturally.
Consider your focus
Nearly every woman who would like a man to commit to a life-long relationship will push every other thing at the back of her mind. This issue tends to become her focal point. Unfortunately, this is something that can scare off your boyfriend. No man would enjoy a feeling of being trapped, yet this is what he may feel in case you dream of is to make him yours. All you seem to think about is getting married to him. If the man gets the idea that you are pushing him towards a commitment, you will be more likely to push him away instead.
Lead - from the background
Men get the thrill out of being hunters. On the other hand, they easily become frightened when they realize that they are the ones being pursued. So although you should take a leading role in shaping your relationship, you will succeed when you do it from the background. Let him have something to chase in you instead. For instance, just make yourself scarce to give him the chance to come after you. Only a man who does not mind losing you will take things easy when there is the risk of your slipping away.
On the other hand, if he knows that you are always available; your boyfriend will relax his efforts of making any commitment. Get him out of this comfort by being less available without giving any excuses. Let him realize that you have an independent life that is not tied up with his.
Watch your words
Talking about your expectations in a marriage will not make your boyfriend decide to go ahead and propose. If you want him to think of marriage, you should not talk about the topic at all. In addition, avoid doing anything that brings the idea of marriage, including the books and magazines that you leave lying around.
Thursday, November 12, 2009
The Art Of Seducing A Man - Make Him Find You Totally Irresistible
There's but one phrase you can say to a man that will have him thinking about you for days...one way to get his attention without using your body.
Women who understand men know that he can keep coming back without giving you a commitment IF you are always available for a booty call. But IF you get inside his mind, he will keep coming back to you until he commits to you for good.
If you agree with a man's inner resistance, it will throw him off. The more you push away from his desire to resist, the more attractive he'll find you.
For example...if you've been chatting up a man for a while and he seems to have interest in you. Throw in this sentence. Make sure the timing is right...when the conversation is flowing really well. First smile as if you know something then say to him playfully:
"I don't think you're ready for this."
Don't wait to get his feedback. Just say it and drop it. Change the subject and act as if you never even said it.
He'll have a hard time forgetting it.
It will be the opposite of how women usually relate to him. Most women hint in one way or another that they want something from a guy. When you use the attraction he has for you to agree with his inner resistance to not wanting to feel pressure, it will automatically take the pressure off and believe it or not, he'll internally want to disagree with you and move towards you.
To cause a raging wildfire in your man where he craves you day and night, visit: http://aboutrelationship.com/WillYouMarryMe
by Nicole Gayle
Women who understand men know that he can keep coming back without giving you a commitment IF you are always available for a booty call. But IF you get inside his mind, he will keep coming back to you until he commits to you for good.
If you agree with a man's inner resistance, it will throw him off. The more you push away from his desire to resist, the more attractive he'll find you.
For example...if you've been chatting up a man for a while and he seems to have interest in you. Throw in this sentence. Make sure the timing is right...when the conversation is flowing really well. First smile as if you know something then say to him playfully:
"I don't think you're ready for this."
Don't wait to get his feedback. Just say it and drop it. Change the subject and act as if you never even said it.
He'll have a hard time forgetting it.
It will be the opposite of how women usually relate to him. Most women hint in one way or another that they want something from a guy. When you use the attraction he has for you to agree with his inner resistance to not wanting to feel pressure, it will automatically take the pressure off and believe it or not, he'll internally want to disagree with you and move towards you.
To cause a raging wildfire in your man where he craves you day and night, visit: http://aboutrelationship.com/WillYouMarryMe
by Nicole Gayle
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Secret Dating Tips for Woman
It is rightly said that men are from Mars and women are from Venus. It is so difficult to actually draw a line or predict as to what women need, and how men react. Men generally say it’s a herculean task to understand a woman. And women on her part feel that men are dumb without any emotion or feeling. Whatever it is women want attention and men want to play safe by not attaching too much to the women folks.
One great weakness of a woman is expectations. She expects her man to be around her giving all the attention in the world one pointedly. But when that doesn’t happen she is all nagging and depressed. Women want to be an irresistible part of a man’s life. Their whole life is bent on making a man turn back and look and come behind her. So what can make a man irresistibly and hopelessly stuck with a woman? Is there any magic formula? What is the secret and how can it be achieved?
Dating tips for woman - understand a man's weakness too
Men are always curious about a woman if she is distant or is resisting his call. The more you keep off the more they are attracted as the curious factor in them will drive them crazy. So it is always good to maintain some form of curiosity in their mind to keep them behind you. Don’t try to reveal your whole package within the first few meetings or dates. Let him know that you are a mystery and that will create a deep interest about you and he will keep coming back to know more and more about you.
Dating tips for woman - don't fake to attract a man
Many women go out of the way to project themselves as super good or super sexy. Men can easily identify such women and they try to keep off. Be natural and do things just for your sake. Don’t fake your behavior nor try to be someone you are not. First respect your self esteem and be proud that you are what you are. Then this self confidence will reflect on your day to day activities.
Men love woman who are confident and self dependant. So, the easiest way to corner a man is to just be your own true self. Simply logic is that men don’t want to get committed so easily and thus avoid woman who are very insecure and dependant. Once they see someone who is self dependant, non committal and self reliant they just fall head over heals for her.
One great weakness of a woman is expectations. She expects her man to be around her giving all the attention in the world one pointedly. But when that doesn’t happen she is all nagging and depressed. Women want to be an irresistible part of a man’s life. Their whole life is bent on making a man turn back and look and come behind her. So what can make a man irresistibly and hopelessly stuck with a woman? Is there any magic formula? What is the secret and how can it be achieved?
Dating tips for woman - understand a man's weakness too
Men are always curious about a woman if she is distant or is resisting his call. The more you keep off the more they are attracted as the curious factor in them will drive them crazy. So it is always good to maintain some form of curiosity in their mind to keep them behind you. Don’t try to reveal your whole package within the first few meetings or dates. Let him know that you are a mystery and that will create a deep interest about you and he will keep coming back to know more and more about you.
Dating tips for woman - don't fake to attract a man
Many women go out of the way to project themselves as super good or super sexy. Men can easily identify such women and they try to keep off. Be natural and do things just for your sake. Don’t fake your behavior nor try to be someone you are not. First respect your self esteem and be proud that you are what you are. Then this self confidence will reflect on your day to day activities.
Men love woman who are confident and self dependant. So, the easiest way to corner a man is to just be your own true self. Simply logic is that men don’t want to get committed so easily and thus avoid woman who are very insecure and dependant. Once they see someone who is self dependant, non committal and self reliant they just fall head over heals for her.
Thursday, November 5, 2009
If a Guy Likes You - Read a Man's Body Language
You can go through a time of great uncertainty as you wait for a man to tell you if he is interested in you. However, there is another convenient method that you can use to determine his interest without waiting for his verbal affirmation - body language.
Although reading body language is not as simple as it sounds, once you know how to do it, you will be able to understand the men better, which is a major step in forming good relationships. So, you will learn the basics from this article.
Raised eyebrows and dilated pupils
In general, you can determine a guy's interest right at the instant you meet. If you take a closer look at his eyes, you may notice that he raises his eyebrows. You may even notice that his pupils dilate. These are things that usually happen when someone has interest. However, do not confuse this with the natural dilation that takes places when the light is dim.
The major drawback here is that you have to be very keen, and of course, you will need to be relatively close to the man. Fortunately, there are still other more obvious ways through which you can use body language to read a guy's interest. There are basically two categories of body language - open body language and closed body language.
Open body language
There are a number of signs that fall under this category. In general, the man will turn his body towards you whether he is sitting or standing. This is often accompanied by a forward lean of the torso that allows him to get closer to you and pay more attention.
The man will also pay close attention to the types of subtle signals that you give, and act appropriately. For instance, he will notice that you need more space when you lean back, hence he will also do the same.
Once you have determined IF A GUY LIKES YOU, you will need to take appropriate action to ensure that this initial interest blossoms into a great relationship.
Although reading body language is not as simple as it sounds, once you know how to do it, you will be able to understand the men better, which is a major step in forming good relationships. So, you will learn the basics from this article.
Raised eyebrows and dilated pupils
In general, you can determine a guy's interest right at the instant you meet. If you take a closer look at his eyes, you may notice that he raises his eyebrows. You may even notice that his pupils dilate. These are things that usually happen when someone has interest. However, do not confuse this with the natural dilation that takes places when the light is dim.
The major drawback here is that you have to be very keen, and of course, you will need to be relatively close to the man. Fortunately, there are still other more obvious ways through which you can use body language to read a guy's interest. There are basically two categories of body language - open body language and closed body language.
Open body language
There are a number of signs that fall under this category. In general, the man will turn his body towards you whether he is sitting or standing. This is often accompanied by a forward lean of the torso that allows him to get closer to you and pay more attention.
The man will also pay close attention to the types of subtle signals that you give, and act appropriately. For instance, he will notice that you need more space when you lean back, hence he will also do the same.
Once you have determined IF A GUY LIKES YOU, you will need to take appropriate action to ensure that this initial interest blossoms into a great relationship.
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