41. Take the time to notice what he has done for you and the family.
42. Brag about him to other people both in front of him and even when he's not there.
43. Share your thoughts and feelings with him (but keep it brief when he's tired—sometimes men can feel "flooded" by too many words).
44. Tell him 3 things you specifically appreciate about him.
45. Honor him in front of the children (and differ respectfully in private when it's necessary).
46. Give him time to unwind for a few minutes after coming home from work, and then take your "time out", giving him a few minutes with the children.
47. Get up with him, even when he gets up earlier than you want to and pray with him. (Hopefully you can go back to sleep afterwards. If not, it's a sacrifice worth making.)
48. Be his "help-mate" in whatever ways you sense he needs it.
49. Do some shoulder-to-shoulder activities with him (like watching a movie or driving quietly in a car) without talking. Sometimes men just like to BE with you and not talk.
50. Be a student of your husband's ways so you can show your love for him in ways he'll better comprehend it.
More information, visit http://howtomakeyourhusbandhappy.com/HappyMarriage
Friday, February 27, 2009
Thursday, February 26, 2009
100 Ways To Love Your Husband - Part 4 of 10
31. Initiate going out on romantic outings (when he's not tired).
32. Write him a letter occasionally, telling him how much you love him.
33. Surprise him with a fun gift of some kind.
34. Express how much you appreciate him for working so hard to support the family.
35. Tell him how proud you are of him.
36. Give advice in a loving way — not in a nagging or belittling way.
37. Help your husband to be the Spiritual head of the home (without "lording" it over him that you're helping).
38. Look for ways to reserve some of your energies for him so you're not so tired when he wants and needs you sexually.
39. Don't expect him to do projects beyond his capabilities. All men aren't born equal in this area of expertise.
40. Pray for him to enjoy God's best in life.
32. Write him a letter occasionally, telling him how much you love him.
33. Surprise him with a fun gift of some kind.
34. Express how much you appreciate him for working so hard to support the family.
35. Tell him how proud you are of him.
36. Give advice in a loving way — not in a nagging or belittling way.
37. Help your husband to be the Spiritual head of the home (without "lording" it over him that you're helping).
38. Look for ways to reserve some of your energies for him so you're not so tired when he wants and needs you sexually.
39. Don't expect him to do projects beyond his capabilities. All men aren't born equal in this area of expertise.
40. Pray for him to enjoy God's best in life.
Friday, February 13, 2009
100 Ways To Love Your Husband - Part 3 of 10
21.Talk with him about having specific family goals for each year to work on to achieve together so you will both feel closer to each other as a marital team.
22.Don't over commit yourself. Leave time for him.
23.Be forgiving when he offends you.
24.Find ways to show him you need him.
25.Encourage alone time for him when it's possible. (This energizes him to reconnect with you at other times.)
26.Admit your mistakes; don't be afraid to be humble. Peel away your pride.
27.Defend him to anyone who is being disrespectful in their talk about him, remembering that love protects (1 Corinthians 13:7).
28.Respect his desire to do well—not his performance.
29.Rub his feet or neck, or scratch his back after a hard day.
30.Take time for the two of you to sit and talk calmly (schedule it when necessary).
22.Don't over commit yourself. Leave time for him.
23.Be forgiving when he offends you.
24.Find ways to show him you need him.
25.Encourage alone time for him when it's possible. (This energizes him to reconnect with you at other times.)
26.Admit your mistakes; don't be afraid to be humble. Peel away your pride.
27.Defend him to anyone who is being disrespectful in their talk about him, remembering that love protects (1 Corinthians 13:7).
28.Respect his desire to do well—not his performance.
29.Rub his feet or neck, or scratch his back after a hard day.
30.Take time for the two of you to sit and talk calmly (schedule it when necessary).
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
100 Ways To Love Your Husband - Part 2 of 10
11. Avoid sudden major changes without discussion giving him time to adjust.
12.When you go out on a date together don't bring up problems—reserve that time to one of having fun together.
13.Focus on what he's doing right, instead of focusing so often on the negatives.
14.Show interest in what he feels is important in life.
15.Correct him gently and in private.
16.Recognize that the first few minutes after a spouse comes home often sets the stage for the way the rest of the evening will go. So try to make the first few minutes of seeing each other a more positive experience if possible. (And then ease into the negative if it's necessary.)
17.Make special time available to him apart from the children.
18.Don't allow any family member to treat him disrespectfully. You should be the one to defend him to any family member that dishonors his place as your husband.
19.Compliment him often.
20.Be creative when you express your love, both in words and in actions.
12.When you go out on a date together don't bring up problems—reserve that time to one of having fun together.
13.Focus on what he's doing right, instead of focusing so often on the negatives.
14.Show interest in what he feels is important in life.
15.Correct him gently and in private.
16.Recognize that the first few minutes after a spouse comes home often sets the stage for the way the rest of the evening will go. So try to make the first few minutes of seeing each other a more positive experience if possible. (And then ease into the negative if it's necessary.)
17.Make special time available to him apart from the children.
18.Don't allow any family member to treat him disrespectfully. You should be the one to defend him to any family member that dishonors his place as your husband.
19.Compliment him often.
20.Be creative when you express your love, both in words and in actions.
Monday, February 9, 2009
Getting The Man Of Your Dreams
I am very sure you have been in a situation whereby you notice a man that catches attention, causing your heart to beat wildly with excitement? It could be a guy that you at your workplace, around your neighborhood, at college, or maybe at your local cafeteria. No matter where or when, you always feel an attraction towards this man, and you wonder if he was the perfect guy you have always been looking for in your life. So how exactly do you go about getting this man of your dreams?
Or maybe there is this particular guy you already know, and you've started to have stronger and deeper feelings for him. Maybe you have socialized with him regularly during meetings or team assignments. Now that you're starting to fall in love with him, you're afraid of telling him for fear of scaring him away if he doesn't feel the same towards you. What can you do or what should you do if you find yourself in such a similar situation? How can you get that special man to notice you more and pay attention to you? And if everything goes smoothly and favorably between you and him, how should you go about bringing this relationship to a higher level - getting him to fall in love with you?
There are a total of seven important moves that every woman should make in order to get a man to fall in love with her. For further reading, visit http://howtomakeaguyfallinlovewithyou.com/ . Learn the secrets to getting the man of your dreams and how to make him fall in love with you!
Or maybe there is this particular guy you already know, and you've started to have stronger and deeper feelings for him. Maybe you have socialized with him regularly during meetings or team assignments. Now that you're starting to fall in love with him, you're afraid of telling him for fear of scaring him away if he doesn't feel the same towards you. What can you do or what should you do if you find yourself in such a similar situation? How can you get that special man to notice you more and pay attention to you? And if everything goes smoothly and favorably between you and him, how should you go about bringing this relationship to a higher level - getting him to fall in love with you?
There are a total of seven important moves that every woman should make in order to get a man to fall in love with her. For further reading, visit http://howtomakeaguyfallinlovewithyou.com/ . Learn the secrets to getting the man of your dreams and how to make him fall in love with you!
Friday, February 6, 2009
100 Ways To Love Your Husband - Part 1 of 10
I came across these 100 tips on loving your husband on the Internet that you might find it helpful. It was pretty long so i'll divide them into 10 portions.
1.Communicate with him respectfully.
2.Regard him as important and let him know he's important to you.
3.Do everything you can to at least understand his feelings—even when you disagree with him.
4.Be interested in his friends and occasionally give him time with them (if they are trust-worthy men).
5.Ask for his opinion and let him know you value what he says.
6.Tell him you both love him AND like him.
7.Let him feel your approval and affections.
8.Protect his dignity on a daily basis.
9.Be tender with him realizing he has feelings also.
10.Foster an atmosphere of laughter in your home. Look for ways to laugh together.
1.Communicate with him respectfully.
2.Regard him as important and let him know he's important to you.
3.Do everything you can to at least understand his feelings—even when you disagree with him.
4.Be interested in his friends and occasionally give him time with them (if they are trust-worthy men).
5.Ask for his opinion and let him know you value what he says.
6.Tell him you both love him AND like him.
7.Let him feel your approval and affections.
8.Protect his dignity on a daily basis.
9.Be tender with him realizing he has feelings also.
10.Foster an atmosphere of laughter in your home. Look for ways to laugh together.
Monday, February 2, 2009
Why Does He Not Call You?
If you are in a relationship, you know it can be difficult to manage and deal with. As time passes, men may call less and you may feel that he doesn't care anymore. Should you be a woman in this sort of situation, you will definitely feel anxious. In such a situation, there are things you need to be aware of and things you SHOULDN'T DO.
(1) Don't Panic
Panicking is the worst thing you can do when your boyfriend doesn’t call. When he hasn’t called for a few days, many women assume that he’s got himself a new girlfriend, wheareas in actual fact - chances of him having a new girlfriend are actually small. There are alot of reasons men take days to call their girlfriends, so stop thinking the worst.
(2) Don’t Call or Text Message Him
Sometimes men won’t call their women back because they want to watch their reaction. Many women will repeatedly dial their boyfriend’s number when they haven’t returned their calls. When we expect them to call and don’t, women worry. It’s normal to have that sense of rejection. Too many desperate text messages and calls to him will make him think that you are desperate and needy for his affections, which is a bad thing.
Sometimes this can lead to being taken advantage of. If they know you are desperate and will never leave him, then may feel like it fine not to call back. They will take it for granted as they know it won’t matter how much time passes, you are still going to be there, waiting for him to return to you.
Solution to Women’s Boyfriend Issues
When a boyfriend won’t call a woman back, the woman needs to stop waiting and get out there and enjoy life. Don’t call him. Should I call him? What happens? They’ll wonder what happened and begin to get curious. When the man finally calls, don’t answer it right away. Make the man be the one to leave the message.
(1) Don't Panic
Panicking is the worst thing you can do when your boyfriend doesn’t call. When he hasn’t called for a few days, many women assume that he’s got himself a new girlfriend, wheareas in actual fact - chances of him having a new girlfriend are actually small. There are alot of reasons men take days to call their girlfriends, so stop thinking the worst.
(2) Don’t Call or Text Message Him
Sometimes men won’t call their women back because they want to watch their reaction. Many women will repeatedly dial their boyfriend’s number when they haven’t returned their calls. When we expect them to call and don’t, women worry. It’s normal to have that sense of rejection. Too many desperate text messages and calls to him will make him think that you are desperate and needy for his affections, which is a bad thing.
Sometimes this can lead to being taken advantage of. If they know you are desperate and will never leave him, then may feel like it fine not to call back. They will take it for granted as they know it won’t matter how much time passes, you are still going to be there, waiting for him to return to you.
Solution to Women’s Boyfriend Issues
When a boyfriend won’t call a woman back, the woman needs to stop waiting and get out there and enjoy life. Don’t call him. Should I call him? What happens? They’ll wonder what happened and begin to get curious. When the man finally calls, don’t answer it right away. Make the man be the one to leave the message.
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