Women, did you know there are 12 things that you do that man tend to hate most of all? It’s true these things that women either know or don’t know that they do. What are these 12 things that women should avoid? They are:
1. Not Sticking to Agreements
When agreements are made, women tend to break them or change them to suit their needs, no matter what the situation is.
2. Keeping Their Feelings
It’s stereotypical to believe women share automatically how they are feeling. Actually, women will hold in their feelings until they are asked often enough that they spill what is on their minds.
3. Try to Change Their Men
Women often understand men but don’t agree with the way they are. Women try to change them to suit their needs or leave them alone completely.
4. Mate Comparison
Women, sometimes unknowingly, compare their current mate to their ex in terms of negative aspects. Comparisons should be made when it's favorable.
5. Belittling His Hobbies
Everyone has a hobby or two that their mate doesn’t like. However, you should never keep them from doing it. Also, never demand that they take an interest in your hobby. The message you send is that your hobbies are much more important than is and that’s not the message you should be sending.
6. Gossiping
While it would seem to stroke the man’s ego, men don’t like women gossiping about them, whether it’s good or bad. It doesn’t matter.
7. Nagging
Men do not like it when a woman constantly nags them about getting things done whether or not it’s with good intentions.
8. Interruption
Believe it or not, a man needs to talk to so it’s best you listen with an open mind and not try to interrupt. Men do not like it when a woman listens but looks impatient to talk too. If you interrupt him with something else not relevant to the current conversation, you could create tension between the both of you.
9. Solution Oriented vs. Conversation Oriented
Men like to get to the bottom of things so don’t get upset if they don’t want to talk for hours about a particular subject.
10. Beauty Conscious
Men do not like it when a woman spends a lot of time looking at herself in the mirror but still looks the same as she always does.
11. Paranoia
Men don’t like it when a woman gets paranoid about the way she looks. If your man doesn’t like the way you look, they wouldn’t be with you.
12. Insecure/Jealously
Believe it or not, men do not like jealousy, even a small bit. This is especially true if you are out on a date together and catch their eye wander. You make a wise crack about it. This actually annoys them very much.
If you don’t want to drive your man up the wall, then stay away from these 12 blundering mistakes and work on more positive outlet to keep your man.
Friday, May 22, 2009
Saturday, May 16, 2009
10 Things Guys Hate to Hear From Women
Ladies you need to be tactful while to talking to your guys. In this article we would talk about the ten things guys hate to hear from women and the reasons behind it as well.
1. When will we meet again?
Please remember that you can not change his mind of not seeing you again if he doesn’t want to. Thus you should be careful before saying this to a guy. If he thinks that “seeing you” is a waste of time then he would never see you again.
2. I was waiting for your call
You should never make a guy realize that you wait for his calls. He did not call you because he did not want to call you. You should not waste your time thinking the reasons why. If somebody is not making frequent calls to you then this means that you are not always on his mind.
3. Where have you been hanging around?
This question irritates guys a lot. You should never try to make bondage for a guy by asking questions like this. It is his choice he can roam about anywhere without having to inform you. You should not try to be over possessive.
4. I Love You (First)
You should never be in a hurry to say these three words to a guy. You should let him say these words to you naturally. If you initiate things most of the time then you may end up losing him by showing desperateness.
5. Did you sleep with her?
You should not go too deep into one’s past relationship. Right now it really does not matter that he slept with his ex or not. So forget about asking this type of question.
6. I am pregnant
You should never take chances with pregnancy. There are so many things available these days to avoid pregnancy. You should better be careful rather then worrying later on.
7. Where is this going?
Guy prefer taking time in any relationship. So try not to be in a hurry putting him so many questions about the future. You will realize the future by yourself as time passes by slowly.
8. We need to talk
These words sound like there is something wrong going on. When you really want to talk to him about something then just sit and initiate the talk. You should not a give a signal that it is something bothering you for a long time.
9. I hate you
As it is not advisable to say I love you, you should also not say I hate you. You just need to be a bit mature and start avoiding that person if you really are not in a mood of continuing with him any further. It is better to finish things calmly than showing your anger and aggression to another person. By doing so you will leave him confused and wondering about the reasons and would make him realize his mistakes.
10. I don’t trust you
If you really don’t trust the guy then why are still hanging out with him. You should stop wasting your precious time with the guy. Try to be clear of your thoughts.
If you are in suspicion then you should try to investigate without saying these words to him otherwise he would become conscious and you would end up knowing nothing. More information at http://howtomakeaguyfallinlovewithyou.com
1. When will we meet again?
Please remember that you can not change his mind of not seeing you again if he doesn’t want to. Thus you should be careful before saying this to a guy. If he thinks that “seeing you” is a waste of time then he would never see you again.
2. I was waiting for your call
You should never make a guy realize that you wait for his calls. He did not call you because he did not want to call you. You should not waste your time thinking the reasons why. If somebody is not making frequent calls to you then this means that you are not always on his mind.
3. Where have you been hanging around?
This question irritates guys a lot. You should never try to make bondage for a guy by asking questions like this. It is his choice he can roam about anywhere without having to inform you. You should not try to be over possessive.
4. I Love You (First)
You should never be in a hurry to say these three words to a guy. You should let him say these words to you naturally. If you initiate things most of the time then you may end up losing him by showing desperateness.
5. Did you sleep with her?
You should not go too deep into one’s past relationship. Right now it really does not matter that he slept with his ex or not. So forget about asking this type of question.
6. I am pregnant
You should never take chances with pregnancy. There are so many things available these days to avoid pregnancy. You should better be careful rather then worrying later on.
7. Where is this going?
Guy prefer taking time in any relationship. So try not to be in a hurry putting him so many questions about the future. You will realize the future by yourself as time passes by slowly.
8. We need to talk
These words sound like there is something wrong going on. When you really want to talk to him about something then just sit and initiate the talk. You should not a give a signal that it is something bothering you for a long time.
9. I hate you
As it is not advisable to say I love you, you should also not say I hate you. You just need to be a bit mature and start avoiding that person if you really are not in a mood of continuing with him any further. It is better to finish things calmly than showing your anger and aggression to another person. By doing so you will leave him confused and wondering about the reasons and would make him realize his mistakes.
10. I don’t trust you
If you really don’t trust the guy then why are still hanging out with him. You should stop wasting your precious time with the guy. Try to be clear of your thoughts.
If you are in suspicion then you should try to investigate without saying these words to him otherwise he would become conscious and you would end up knowing nothing. More information at http://howtomakeaguyfallinlovewithyou.com
Monday, May 11, 2009
How to Read Men's Body Language if He’s Into You
Men have a body language of their own that you will clearly know when they are interested in a woman. You need to find out how to read your man's body language. As a woman it’s not best to ask your man if he’s happy spending time with you. To understand if a man is really interested in you, watch his body language.
You need to know how to read a man’s body language, observe him when he is around you and it can reveal if he is interested in you.
Body Language
To read men’s body language, you have to watch him closely and note everything he does when he is with you. An important clue is men who are interested in the opposite sex raise their eyebrows when looking at the women. It is a very subtle clue to note but if you know the art of men’s body language you can spot it when they are looking at you and can decipher men’s looks instantly. As a test when you meet your man or boyfriend take note of his eyebrows, the clue is it rises and falls when he observes you first time and that show he’s smitten.
Hair Test
Men also touch their hair just as women do when he is attracted to a woman. Men follow a similar hair touching and fussing around women they like and enjoy being with most of the time.
Men smooth their hairs or tousle it depending on his hair style. Women may think men are self conscious around partners they are interested but it is a subtle clue that he likes you, he is interested in attracting you and boost his appeal for you.
Body Movements
Men lean forward when talking to women they like which is a good indicator and important clue to their body language signs. It is an easy sign to read and should be noted when men repeat this with women they are interested. But if he crosses his arms and leans back against the wall when standing in front of you it indicates he is not interested in you.
Legs Are Talking
Legs talk and you have to pay careful attention to a man’s leg movements to get clues on leg language. Men cross their legs and this is an important clue to note about their body language.
When he is sitting in front of you and talking to you, the clue to observe is if the legs are crossed and is pointing towards you, indicating his interest in you.
Women who are not aware of this sign should pay close attention to your man's body language sign. When you are with your man the next time round observe his leg movement and you can understand his thoughts.
You need to know how to read a man’s body language, observe him when he is around you and it can reveal if he is interested in you.
Body Language
To read men’s body language, you have to watch him closely and note everything he does when he is with you. An important clue is men who are interested in the opposite sex raise their eyebrows when looking at the women. It is a very subtle clue to note but if you know the art of men’s body language you can spot it when they are looking at you and can decipher men’s looks instantly. As a test when you meet your man or boyfriend take note of his eyebrows, the clue is it rises and falls when he observes you first time and that show he’s smitten.
Hair Test
Men also touch their hair just as women do when he is attracted to a woman. Men follow a similar hair touching and fussing around women they like and enjoy being with most of the time.
Men smooth their hairs or tousle it depending on his hair style. Women may think men are self conscious around partners they are interested but it is a subtle clue that he likes you, he is interested in attracting you and boost his appeal for you.
Body Movements
Men lean forward when talking to women they like which is a good indicator and important clue to their body language signs. It is an easy sign to read and should be noted when men repeat this with women they are interested. But if he crosses his arms and leans back against the wall when standing in front of you it indicates he is not interested in you.
Legs Are Talking
Legs talk and you have to pay careful attention to a man’s leg movements to get clues on leg language. Men cross their legs and this is an important clue to note about their body language.
When he is sitting in front of you and talking to you, the clue to observe is if the legs are crossed and is pointing towards you, indicating his interest in you.
Women who are not aware of this sign should pay close attention to your man's body language sign. When you are with your man the next time round observe his leg movement and you can understand his thoughts.
Friday, May 8, 2009
What Do Men Want From Women?
When they say men are from Mars and women are from Venus it is obvious that they mean men and women are not alike. This means that men think very differently than women and you must be in full agreement if you already have a boyfriend.
The biggest mistake most woman make is to assume that their boyfriends will be able to know what they want even if they do not communicate it to the men verbally. But you must understand that just like you are unable to understand his needs and wants even he is not able to read your mind. And surely you would be having the most asked question by the women around the world in your mind; what do men want from women. Having a general idea about his thought process can be very helpful in this case.
(1) Woman Who Is Fun to Be With
Even though men prefer to have a relationship with woman who is fun to be with and adventurous, what they seek in reality is a deep meaningful relationship just like what women seek. When you say adventurous it doesn’t mean you have to perform daredevil stunts to impress him. It simply means you have to be outgoing and effervescent. This is truer in the early stages of a relationship, especially in early dating phase. Fun loving nature would top the list when answering the question what men want.
(2) Let Him Pursue You
You have to get in his shoes and view your relationship. Men like women to be unpredictable. And they like to chase women. Both these factors point to the fact that he doesn’t want to get you easily. Let him work hard to get you. Do not start talking about wedding plans and discussion too much about future early in your relationship. This might upset him and even scare him. Less is more is the key as far as discussing future is concerned when thinking about what do men want from women. The perfect way to make him think more seriously about long term commitment is to not putting pressure on him for it. He needs the commitment factor to come naturally to him. Any pressure would simply blow away any chance of getting him to it.
(3) Importance of Trust and Honesty
There is a saying ‘do unto others as you want them to do unto you’. This is truer than ever when you talk of honesty. Your boyfriend needs the same honesty from you that you expect from him. Being honest doesn’t always mean sharing the deepest secrets with him. But in general you have to be honest about the more important things. Also show him that you trust his words and even if you have an urge to ask do not ask too many questions about his where about always.
Following these 3 things you would have the basic idea knowing what men want from women, generally how most men behave and the needs men want from the women in their lives.
The biggest mistake most woman make is to assume that their boyfriends will be able to know what they want even if they do not communicate it to the men verbally. But you must understand that just like you are unable to understand his needs and wants even he is not able to read your mind. And surely you would be having the most asked question by the women around the world in your mind; what do men want from women. Having a general idea about his thought process can be very helpful in this case.
(1) Woman Who Is Fun to Be With
Even though men prefer to have a relationship with woman who is fun to be with and adventurous, what they seek in reality is a deep meaningful relationship just like what women seek. When you say adventurous it doesn’t mean you have to perform daredevil stunts to impress him. It simply means you have to be outgoing and effervescent. This is truer in the early stages of a relationship, especially in early dating phase. Fun loving nature would top the list when answering the question what men want.
(2) Let Him Pursue You
You have to get in his shoes and view your relationship. Men like women to be unpredictable. And they like to chase women. Both these factors point to the fact that he doesn’t want to get you easily. Let him work hard to get you. Do not start talking about wedding plans and discussion too much about future early in your relationship. This might upset him and even scare him. Less is more is the key as far as discussing future is concerned when thinking about what do men want from women. The perfect way to make him think more seriously about long term commitment is to not putting pressure on him for it. He needs the commitment factor to come naturally to him. Any pressure would simply blow away any chance of getting him to it.
(3) Importance of Trust and Honesty
There is a saying ‘do unto others as you want them to do unto you’. This is truer than ever when you talk of honesty. Your boyfriend needs the same honesty from you that you expect from him. Being honest doesn’t always mean sharing the deepest secrets with him. But in general you have to be honest about the more important things. Also show him that you trust his words and even if you have an urge to ask do not ask too many questions about his where about always.
Following these 3 things you would have the basic idea knowing what men want from women, generally how most men behave and the needs men want from the women in their lives.
Sunday, May 3, 2009
Secrets Behind Making Your Man Fall in Love with You
If you are interested in a guy you are always thinking about how to make him love you. Your head is always planning strategies to make him fall in love with you. You might know for sure that you are in love but there might be no clue as to whether he has the same feeling for you. In this article you can know about the secrets behind what will make him fall in love, and you will feel more confident.
(1) Your Appearance
Always be presentable and well dressed. Don’t be shabbily dressed or think you might not meet him today. Dress as if you will be meeting him every day. Don’t try to over dress or present yourself in full make up. Be natural and try to be comfortable in whatever you wear. Take special care in grooming and love yourself first before you want others to love you.
(2) Your Confidence
Most men fall in love with self-confident, secured and bold women. Women who are insecure and lack confidence tend to make men feel uncomfortable as they will always depend on them and expect much from them. So whatever you do try to have confident and always have a self esteem and be proud of who you are.
(3) Your Visibility
Always try to be in the right places so that you can be visible to your man. Be in places where he might easily see you and always pretend that you are there by chance and not deliberately. Make it look and feel as if it is casual. Scientifically it is proven that the more someone see’s, feels and is in the vicinity of someone there is more chance of someone falling and getting in love. So be there around him and make a point to make him look at you every time you pass by.
(4) Vanishing Act
The next biggest secret after creating a comfort level with him is to vanish. Once you know he is looking at you and has special liking for you, just disappear from his sight and keep away. Let him keep wondering and searching for his lady love. The more he starts missing you the more he will try other ways and means to contact you like SMS, call or emails. So wait patiently until you get a buzz in your mail box or mobile.
(5) Eye Contact/Keep in Touch
Eyes are windows to someone's heart and mind. So look through his eyes and see his love flashing like stars. Don’t forget to give courtesy calls and be very polite and poised and never show what’s in your mind until he opens up. Once you are sure of his love try to keep him busy with you or thinking of you all the time by messaging or mailing him how much you miss him and what a great time you had with him last night. Always create a ray of better things to come and much better things to expect from you.
The secrets is make the man feel comfortable whenever you have the chance or a date with him and in no time it is not hard to make him fall in love with you.
(1) Your Appearance
Always be presentable and well dressed. Don’t be shabbily dressed or think you might not meet him today. Dress as if you will be meeting him every day. Don’t try to over dress or present yourself in full make up. Be natural and try to be comfortable in whatever you wear. Take special care in grooming and love yourself first before you want others to love you.
(2) Your Confidence
Most men fall in love with self-confident, secured and bold women. Women who are insecure and lack confidence tend to make men feel uncomfortable as they will always depend on them and expect much from them. So whatever you do try to have confident and always have a self esteem and be proud of who you are.
(3) Your Visibility
Always try to be in the right places so that you can be visible to your man. Be in places where he might easily see you and always pretend that you are there by chance and not deliberately. Make it look and feel as if it is casual. Scientifically it is proven that the more someone see’s, feels and is in the vicinity of someone there is more chance of someone falling and getting in love. So be there around him and make a point to make him look at you every time you pass by.
(4) Vanishing Act
The next biggest secret after creating a comfort level with him is to vanish. Once you know he is looking at you and has special liking for you, just disappear from his sight and keep away. Let him keep wondering and searching for his lady love. The more he starts missing you the more he will try other ways and means to contact you like SMS, call or emails. So wait patiently until you get a buzz in your mail box or mobile.
(5) Eye Contact/Keep in Touch
Eyes are windows to someone's heart and mind. So look through his eyes and see his love flashing like stars. Don’t forget to give courtesy calls and be very polite and poised and never show what’s in your mind until he opens up. Once you are sure of his love try to keep him busy with you or thinking of you all the time by messaging or mailing him how much you miss him and what a great time you had with him last night. Always create a ray of better things to come and much better things to expect from you.
The secrets is make the man feel comfortable whenever you have the chance or a date with him and in no time it is not hard to make him fall in love with you.
Friday, May 1, 2009
4 Secret Tips to Attract a Great Guy
Occasionally when you are dating a great guy and you feel you have a relationship then your fear of losing him is justified. You never know when this position will revert back and when he will lose interest in you and when he will start wondering to other women.
Hard work is needed in relationships too to keep it strong and going. You need to put in effort to make the relationship fresh and interesting. Here are some useful tips you need to learn if you want your relationship to flourish and keep up with the good and bad times.
Unpredictability
Curiosity is the best bet with men as he is very attractive to unpredictable women. You make your man guess what you will do next or how you will proceed with him. The more curious he becomes the more he will come after you. Men don’t like monotonous behavior and serious women. Try to be unpredictable, spontaneous and fun loving. He will be after you 24/7 wanting to explore and explode with you and will look forward to your next meeting or date together.
Needy
Becoming needy or too dependant can kill a relationship. Stop making him defensive and try to stay cool and always show that his actions least disturb you in any way. Allow him space and if he finds being with his friends interesting then allow him to do so, don’t question nor retaliate or ask him to cancel the plan. Don’t be so desperate about him by calling him regularly to keep him reminded of you. He should miss you and feel the need to talk. And remember men easily can find out desperate women and so play cool and don’t show off your enthusiasm to be with him always.
Speak Your Mind
Be an open book and don’t be afraid to raise your opinion on things which doesn’t go well with you. Just because you need to keep your man in your hands doesn’t mean you need to always accept whatever he says and does. Men hate women who shake their heads to whatever nonsense they might speak. Always tell him your true feelings and try to be calm and don’t try to convince him in taking your point. This quality will reveal to your guy your strengths and he will start adoring you for this great quality of yours. Men like intelligent self made women who have their own way of thinking.
Be Mysterious
Don’t just spill out each and every detail about you to your man. Keep him guessing and wanting to know more about you. Men like to be around mysterious women. So keep some things secret to be unveiled later in the relationship. He must find more and more interesting things about you as he progresses in his relationship with you. This will keep his interest in you undying and fresh. So follow these tips to keep and attract a great guy in your pockets.
Hard work is needed in relationships too to keep it strong and going. You need to put in effort to make the relationship fresh and interesting. Here are some useful tips you need to learn if you want your relationship to flourish and keep up with the good and bad times.
Unpredictability
Curiosity is the best bet with men as he is very attractive to unpredictable women. You make your man guess what you will do next or how you will proceed with him. The more curious he becomes the more he will come after you. Men don’t like monotonous behavior and serious women. Try to be unpredictable, spontaneous and fun loving. He will be after you 24/7 wanting to explore and explode with you and will look forward to your next meeting or date together.
Needy
Becoming needy or too dependant can kill a relationship. Stop making him defensive and try to stay cool and always show that his actions least disturb you in any way. Allow him space and if he finds being with his friends interesting then allow him to do so, don’t question nor retaliate or ask him to cancel the plan. Don’t be so desperate about him by calling him regularly to keep him reminded of you. He should miss you and feel the need to talk. And remember men easily can find out desperate women and so play cool and don’t show off your enthusiasm to be with him always.
Speak Your Mind
Be an open book and don’t be afraid to raise your opinion on things which doesn’t go well with you. Just because you need to keep your man in your hands doesn’t mean you need to always accept whatever he says and does. Men hate women who shake their heads to whatever nonsense they might speak. Always tell him your true feelings and try to be calm and don’t try to convince him in taking your point. This quality will reveal to your guy your strengths and he will start adoring you for this great quality of yours. Men like intelligent self made women who have their own way of thinking.
Be Mysterious
Don’t just spill out each and every detail about you to your man. Keep him guessing and wanting to know more about you. Men like to be around mysterious women. So keep some things secret to be unveiled later in the relationship. He must find more and more interesting things about you as he progresses in his relationship with you. This will keep his interest in you undying and fresh. So follow these tips to keep and attract a great guy in your pockets.
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