There's but one phrase you can say to a man that will have him thinking about you for days...one way to get his attention without using your body.
Women who understand men know that he can keep coming back without giving you a commitment IF you are always available for a booty call. But IF you get inside his mind, he will keep coming back to you until he commits to you for good.
If you agree with a man's inner resistance, it will throw him off. The more you push away from his desire to resist, the more attractive he'll find you.
For example...if you've been chatting up a man for a while and he seems to have interest in you. Throw in this sentence. Make sure the timing is right...when the conversation is flowing really well. First smile as if you know something then say to him playfully:
"I don't think you're ready for this."
Don't wait to get his feedback. Just say it and drop it. Change the subject and act as if you never even said it.
He'll have a hard time forgetting it.
It will be the opposite of how women usually relate to him. Most women hint in one way or another that they want something from a guy. When you use the attraction he has for you to agree with his inner resistance to not wanting to feel pressure, it will automatically take the pressure off and believe it or not, he'll internally want to disagree with you and move towards you. - by Nicole Gayle
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Showing posts with label understand men. Show all posts
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Friday, May 22, 2009
Top 12 Things Men Really Hate Most About Women
Women, did you know there are 12 things that you do that man tend to hate most of all? It’s true these things that women either know or don’t know that they do. What are these 12 things that women should avoid? They are:
1. Not Sticking to Agreements
When agreements are made, women tend to break them or change them to suit their needs, no matter what the situation is.
2. Keeping Their Feelings
It’s stereotypical to believe women share automatically how they are feeling. Actually, women will hold in their feelings until they are asked often enough that they spill what is on their minds.
3. Try to Change Their Men
Women often understand men but don’t agree with the way they are. Women try to change them to suit their needs or leave them alone completely.
4. Mate Comparison
Women, sometimes unknowingly, compare their current mate to their ex in terms of negative aspects. Comparisons should be made when it's favorable.
5. Belittling His Hobbies
Everyone has a hobby or two that their mate doesn’t like. However, you should never keep them from doing it. Also, never demand that they take an interest in your hobby. The message you send is that your hobbies are much more important than is and that’s not the message you should be sending.
6. Gossiping
While it would seem to stroke the man’s ego, men don’t like women gossiping about them, whether it’s good or bad. It doesn’t matter.
7. Nagging
Men do not like it when a woman constantly nags them about getting things done whether or not it’s with good intentions.
8. Interruption
Believe it or not, a man needs to talk to so it’s best you listen with an open mind and not try to interrupt. Men do not like it when a woman listens but looks impatient to talk too. If you interrupt him with something else not relevant to the current conversation, you could create tension between the both of you.
9. Solution Oriented vs. Conversation Oriented
Men like to get to the bottom of things so don’t get upset if they don’t want to talk for hours about a particular subject.
10. Beauty Conscious
Men do not like it when a woman spends a lot of time looking at herself in the mirror but still looks the same as she always does.
11. Paranoia
Men don’t like it when a woman gets paranoid about the way she looks. If your man doesn’t like the way you look, they wouldn’t be with you.
12. Insecure/Jealously
Believe it or not, men do not like jealousy, even a small bit. This is especially true if you are out on a date together and catch their eye wander. You make a wise crack about it. This actually annoys them very much.
If you don’t want to drive your man up the wall, then stay away from these 12 blundering mistakes and work on more positive outlet to keep your man.
1. Not Sticking to Agreements
When agreements are made, women tend to break them or change them to suit their needs, no matter what the situation is.
2. Keeping Their Feelings
It’s stereotypical to believe women share automatically how they are feeling. Actually, women will hold in their feelings until they are asked often enough that they spill what is on their minds.
3. Try to Change Their Men
Women often understand men but don’t agree with the way they are. Women try to change them to suit their needs or leave them alone completely.
4. Mate Comparison
Women, sometimes unknowingly, compare their current mate to their ex in terms of negative aspects. Comparisons should be made when it's favorable.
5. Belittling His Hobbies
Everyone has a hobby or two that their mate doesn’t like. However, you should never keep them from doing it. Also, never demand that they take an interest in your hobby. The message you send is that your hobbies are much more important than is and that’s not the message you should be sending.
6. Gossiping
While it would seem to stroke the man’s ego, men don’t like women gossiping about them, whether it’s good or bad. It doesn’t matter.
7. Nagging
Men do not like it when a woman constantly nags them about getting things done whether or not it’s with good intentions.
8. Interruption
Believe it or not, a man needs to talk to so it’s best you listen with an open mind and not try to interrupt. Men do not like it when a woman listens but looks impatient to talk too. If you interrupt him with something else not relevant to the current conversation, you could create tension between the both of you.
9. Solution Oriented vs. Conversation Oriented
Men like to get to the bottom of things so don’t get upset if they don’t want to talk for hours about a particular subject.
10. Beauty Conscious
Men do not like it when a woman spends a lot of time looking at herself in the mirror but still looks the same as she always does.
11. Paranoia
Men don’t like it when a woman gets paranoid about the way she looks. If your man doesn’t like the way you look, they wouldn’t be with you.
12. Insecure/Jealously
Believe it or not, men do not like jealousy, even a small bit. This is especially true if you are out on a date together and catch their eye wander. You make a wise crack about it. This actually annoys them very much.
If you don’t want to drive your man up the wall, then stay away from these 12 blundering mistakes and work on more positive outlet to keep your man.
Friday, January 30, 2009
How to Make Him Love You - Secret Tips
A woman will sometimes feel that the man in her life seems to love her less than before. If you want to know the secrets on how to make him love you, then you have to start by looking within yourself first. Here are 3 important factors a man look for in a woman, thus keeping him by your side and make him love you more.
(1) Understand Men's Weakness
Men by nature, suppress their feelings and do not express their emotions to openly, but on the contrary women are more expressive. Women expect the men to express their love as they do but they just can’t respond in the same way, but that does not mean that his love is any less. Most men prefer to show their love, not speak about it.
Men show it through actions by doing things that he thinks would make her happy. So the first thing you should do is to respect the love he shows, and not try to force him into saying it.
(2) Cater to His Needs
Women often thinks that a little less frequent intimacy would ignite the passion of a lasting relationship in a man. This is seldom true. Men like to be close and intimate with woman that he loves. One of the best ways to make him love you more is to be more passionate with him and allow him to do some tasks for you. A man likes to feel wanted and he likes making his partner happy.
Give him a chance to prove that he is the best man in world.
(3) Don't Criticize Him
Men like to be told that they are good and the best, he wants to be of value and it matters alot to know that you value him. Always listen to his words and make him feel important.
Do not criticize him when he does something wrong, as it hurts his esteem. Just remind him in a neutral tone - what he has done wrong.
Men respect woman who know their feelings and who are comfortable with themselves. If you want to know how to make him love you, then be yourself, respect and value him.
(1) Understand Men's Weakness
Men by nature, suppress their feelings and do not express their emotions to openly, but on the contrary women are more expressive. Women expect the men to express their love as they do but they just can’t respond in the same way, but that does not mean that his love is any less. Most men prefer to show their love, not speak about it.
Men show it through actions by doing things that he thinks would make her happy. So the first thing you should do is to respect the love he shows, and not try to force him into saying it.
(2) Cater to His Needs
Women often thinks that a little less frequent intimacy would ignite the passion of a lasting relationship in a man. This is seldom true. Men like to be close and intimate with woman that he loves. One of the best ways to make him love you more is to be more passionate with him and allow him to do some tasks for you. A man likes to feel wanted and he likes making his partner happy.
Give him a chance to prove that he is the best man in world.
(3) Don't Criticize Him
Men like to be told that they are good and the best, he wants to be of value and it matters alot to know that you value him. Always listen to his words and make him feel important.
Do not criticize him when he does something wrong, as it hurts his esteem. Just remind him in a neutral tone - what he has done wrong.
Men respect woman who know their feelings and who are comfortable with themselves. If you want to know how to make him love you, then be yourself, respect and value him.
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