Being attractive is the main reason that draws the men in but it is not the reason that will keep them around. There are many reasons that make a man fall out of love. What are the things that will make men fall out of love even if the women look great?
Why Men Fall Out of Love
The reason could be anything small from constant fighting, showing little or no affection, nagging and drama queens.
The following are five things you need to consider to avoid your man falling out of love with you.
Always Be Yourself
Don't pretend to be someone that you are not. Sooner or later you are going to get sick of being someone you’re not and it will start to wear on your nerves. Many women pretend to enjoy things they have NO interest in at all. Some women even lie about their past to impress the man. After he falls in love with you, you get tired of being someone you’re not problems will start to arise in the relationship. Then you have a lot of explaining to do and the relationship start to suffer.
Don’t Be or Play a Needy Woman
If your man is full of self-confidence and you’re not. If he can’t accept you for who you are then he isn’t worth having anyway. If you are in fact needy, seek some help so you can be independent and have an equal relationship.
Spend as Much Time Listening as You Do Talking
A relationship is about two people not one, you have to be willing to listen and share as well as try new things. If he enjoys fishing then give it a try and if you enjoy the opera have him join you. A relationship is a partnership both people need to be willing to give a little. If you stopped making time for each other and make your man feel you don't enjoy his company then someone else will. You need to work on the relationship before your man fall out of love with you.
Money is a Huge Relationship Destroyer
If you live together you need a household budget and you have to equally split the bills. Don’t waste money on $300 shoes if the dishwasher needs repairs. Be responsible.
No Games! Don’t Play Mind Games with Him
If you’re a jealous type find a way to trust him. He is not your ex boyfriend or the guy who cheated on you in 11th grade. Trust him. If he says he loves you then trust him what he say. Men will appreciate and love you if you put trust in him.
These are just the top 5 things that will make a man fall out of love with you and there are several more. Just be yourself, don’t expect more from him than he is able to give you or more than your willing to give him!
Sunday, March 29, 2009
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
100 Ways To Love Your Husband - Part 10 of 10
91. Look your best—dress to honor him and make him proud to be seen with you.
92. Support him when someone tries to put him down. Be his best cheer leader.
93. Don't disagree with him in front of the children.
94. Take him for a weekend get-away without the children.
95. Cheer his successes whether in business or in other areas of everyday living.
96. Be gracious in teaching him how to show you ways that will demonstrate his love for you.
97. Give him coupons to redeem—maybe for a back scratch or a shoulder rub.
98. Buy him a gift certificate to his favorite lunch spot and put it in his wallet.
99. Hide notes for him around the house where only he will find them.
100. Thank him for just being himself.
92. Support him when someone tries to put him down. Be his best cheer leader.
93. Don't disagree with him in front of the children.
94. Take him for a weekend get-away without the children.
95. Cheer his successes whether in business or in other areas of everyday living.
96. Be gracious in teaching him how to show you ways that will demonstrate his love for you.
97. Give him coupons to redeem—maybe for a back scratch or a shoulder rub.
98. Buy him a gift certificate to his favorite lunch spot and put it in his wallet.
99. Hide notes for him around the house where only he will find them.
100. Thank him for just being himself.
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
100 Ways To Love Your Husband - Part 9 of 10
81. Periodically, give him time with his family alone.
82. Check with him before you throw away his junky looking papers. (He may view them as more important than you realize.)
83. Work to keep yourself in shape in every way.
84. Let him express himself freely, without fear of being called stupid or illogical.
85. Carefully choose your words, especially when angry—remembering, as the Bible says, to "speak the truth in LOVE".
86. Don't criticize him in front of others—keeping his dignity in tact.
87. Visit his childhood home with him.
88. When you're angry with him, express it in ways that are respectful. Don't give him the silent treatment.
89. Pray for him.
90. Make him homemade soup when he's sick.
82. Check with him before you throw away his junky looking papers. (He may view them as more important than you realize.)
83. Work to keep yourself in shape in every way.
84. Let him express himself freely, without fear of being called stupid or illogical.
85. Carefully choose your words, especially when angry—remembering, as the Bible says, to "speak the truth in LOVE".
86. Don't criticize him in front of others—keeping his dignity in tact.
87. Visit his childhood home with him.
88. When you're angry with him, express it in ways that are respectful. Don't give him the silent treatment.
89. Pray for him.
90. Make him homemade soup when he's sick.
Saturday, March 14, 2009
100 Ways To Love Your Husband - Part 8 of 10
71. When something goes wrong, instead of assessing blame, focus on how to do better.
72. Never say, "I told you so."
73. Don't argue over money. Peacefully discuss future expenditures instead.
74. Take him out on dates—pre-planning all of the details ahead of time.
75. Hold his hand in public. Snuggle up close to him at times both at home and in public.
76. Praise his good decisions; minimize the bad ones. (And if you need to discuss the bad ones do so respectfully, looking for ways to make better decisions in the future.)
77. Tell him you love him often.
78. Put love notes in his pockets and brief case.
79. Sit with him while he's watching television—even if the program doesn't interest you.
80. Don't ask of him to read your mind. (Family's are spared the grief when a husband isn't required to read their wife's mind despite the fact that the woman thinks he should.)
72. Never say, "I told you so."
73. Don't argue over money. Peacefully discuss future expenditures instead.
74. Take him out on dates—pre-planning all of the details ahead of time.
75. Hold his hand in public. Snuggle up close to him at times both at home and in public.
76. Praise his good decisions; minimize the bad ones. (And if you need to discuss the bad ones do so respectfully, looking for ways to make better decisions in the future.)
77. Tell him you love him often.
78. Put love notes in his pockets and brief case.
79. Sit with him while he's watching television—even if the program doesn't interest you.
80. Don't ask of him to read your mind. (Family's are spared the grief when a husband isn't required to read their wife's mind despite the fact that the woman thinks he should.)
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
100 Ways To Love Your Husband - Part 7 of 10
61. Don't belittle his intelligence or be cynical in your words with him.
62. Initiate sex periodically. And respond more often.
63. Sometimes let him enjoy his day off work without having to "work" at home.
64. Get to the point in your discussions with him. Spare him details unless he wants them.
65. Discover his sexual needs.
66. Surprise him with a 15 second kiss when he gets home from work.
67. Wink at him from across the room when you're out at a group function.
68. Give him the benefit of the doubt when he says things in a wrong way. Think, "What's he
really trying to say?"
69. Don't quarrel over words.
70. Don't forget to use common courtesies with your husband. (Too often we're kinder to strangers than we are to our own spouse.)
62. Initiate sex periodically. And respond more often.
63. Sometimes let him enjoy his day off work without having to "work" at home.
64. Get to the point in your discussions with him. Spare him details unless he wants them.
65. Discover his sexual needs.
66. Surprise him with a 15 second kiss when he gets home from work.
67. Wink at him from across the room when you're out at a group function.
68. Give him the benefit of the doubt when he says things in a wrong way. Think, "What's he
really trying to say?"
69. Don't quarrel over words.
70. Don't forget to use common courtesies with your husband. (Too often we're kinder to strangers than we are to our own spouse.)
Sunday, March 1, 2009
100 Ways To Love Your Husband - Part 6 of 10
51. When your husband is in a bad mood—give him quiet time to recover.
52. Help him to finish his goals, hobbies, or education when he needs your help.
53. Treat him as if God has stamped on his forehead: "Handle With Care".
54. Work to get rid of habits that annoy him.
55. Be kind & thoughtful to his relatives. Don't make him choose between you & them.
56. Don't compare his relatives with yours in a negative way.
57. Thank him for things he's done around the house. (It means a lot to men).
58. Don't expect credit for all you do for him and the household. Do it as "unto the Lord".
59. Make sure he understands everything important that you're planning to do.
60. Do little things for him—an unexpected kiss, coffee in bed, etc.
52. Help him to finish his goals, hobbies, or education when he needs your help.
53. Treat him as if God has stamped on his forehead: "Handle With Care".
54. Work to get rid of habits that annoy him.
55. Be kind & thoughtful to his relatives. Don't make him choose between you & them.
56. Don't compare his relatives with yours in a negative way.
57. Thank him for things he's done around the house. (It means a lot to men).
58. Don't expect credit for all you do for him and the household. Do it as "unto the Lord".
59. Make sure he understands everything important that you're planning to do.
60. Do little things for him—an unexpected kiss, coffee in bed, etc.
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