One of the greatest challenges that we often encounter as women is dealing with boyfriends who get stuck at the dating stage while we are looking for a stronger commitment. Sadly, it is a blatant lie to say that there is a magic formula that we can use to cast a spell on such stubborn guys and make him yours. We are usually left feeling that we are more in love with the boyfriends than they are with us.
If you find yourself in such a position, is there anything you can do in order to change the direction of your relationship? The fact is that there are actually many things that you can do in order to take control of the situation. Here are some tips that will help you to change your boyfriend and make him yours.
Let him be free
Freedom is one of the greatest things that men cherish. Hence if you give the impression that your company will stifle his freedom then you will just alienate him. Please note that this is not the same as encouraging him to move with other women or taking it for granted when he does.
When your boyfriend realizes that your company will not rob him of his freedom then he will be more inclined to take your hand in marriage.
Give him special treats
Here's another great way how to make him yours. That is give him special treats every once in a while. Take note of his interests and make arrangements to share them with him. Don't just make the arrangements only to let him meet the necessary expenses - take care of everything. Learn how to make him feel special and great and you will win his heart.
Listen to him
You should learn to pay close attention to your boyfriend and accommodate his suggestions. Evaluate your relationship in warm discussions where you welcome his contributions. Be open to areas where he would like to see some necessary adjustments in you. This will let him know that you care a great deal about him, and he will be encouraged to become your soul mate.
These are just a few of the numerous things you can do in order to change your boyfriend into your soul mate and make him yours. If you know in your heart that he is the one you would like to establish a lasting commitment with, you do not have to wait for him to feel the same way too. Such steps will help him to get crazy over you. Your relationship does not have to be a matter of chance.
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How to Win the Man of Your Life and Make Him Yours
If you are looking for a marriage relationship and have even found a suitable guy, there is one question that may keep bothering you. What should I do to make him wholly mine? You may wonder. This question may bother you even more in case your boyfriend seems to have no interest in pushing things any further than they are at present.
Are you going to wait forever for him to make the proposal? Isn't there anything you can do in order to speed up the process? Yes, there is. So long as you know how to go about it, you will be able to make your boyfriend think of establishing a more lasting relationship with you.
Here are some of the things that will help you in this effort.
You are not alone
If you are facing the issue of a non committal boyfriend, you should take heart, as this situation is more common than you realize. This therefore means that there is really nothing particularly wrong with either you or your boyfriend. Rather, it is something that tends to take place naturally.
Consider your focus
Nearly every woman who would like a man to commit to a life-long relationship will push every other thing at the back of her mind. This issue tends to become her focal point. Unfortunately, this is something that can scare off your boyfriend. No man would enjoy a feeling of being trapped, yet this is what he may feel in case you dream of is to make him yours. All you seem to think about is getting married to him. If the man gets the idea that you are pushing him towards a commitment, you will be more likely to push him away instead.
Lead - from the background
Men get the thrill out of being hunters. On the other hand, they easily become frightened when they realize that they are the ones being pursued. So although you should take a leading role in shaping your relationship, you will succeed when you do it from the background. Let him have something to chase in you instead. For instance, just make yourself scarce to give him the chance to come after you. Only a man who does not mind losing you will take things easy when there is the risk of your slipping away.
On the other hand, if he knows that you are always available; your boyfriend will relax his efforts of making any commitment. Get him out of this comfort by being less available without giving any excuses. Let him realize that you have an independent life that is not tied up with his.
Watch your words
Talking about your expectations in a marriage will not make your boyfriend decide to go ahead and propose. If you want him to think of marriage, you should not talk about the topic at all. In addition, avoid doing anything that brings the idea of marriage, including the books and magazines that you leave lying around.
Are you going to wait forever for him to make the proposal? Isn't there anything you can do in order to speed up the process? Yes, there is. So long as you know how to go about it, you will be able to make your boyfriend think of establishing a more lasting relationship with you.
Here are some of the things that will help you in this effort.
You are not alone
If you are facing the issue of a non committal boyfriend, you should take heart, as this situation is more common than you realize. This therefore means that there is really nothing particularly wrong with either you or your boyfriend. Rather, it is something that tends to take place naturally.
Consider your focus
Nearly every woman who would like a man to commit to a life-long relationship will push every other thing at the back of her mind. This issue tends to become her focal point. Unfortunately, this is something that can scare off your boyfriend. No man would enjoy a feeling of being trapped, yet this is what he may feel in case you dream of is to make him yours. All you seem to think about is getting married to him. If the man gets the idea that you are pushing him towards a commitment, you will be more likely to push him away instead.
Lead - from the background
Men get the thrill out of being hunters. On the other hand, they easily become frightened when they realize that they are the ones being pursued. So although you should take a leading role in shaping your relationship, you will succeed when you do it from the background. Let him have something to chase in you instead. For instance, just make yourself scarce to give him the chance to come after you. Only a man who does not mind losing you will take things easy when there is the risk of your slipping away.
On the other hand, if he knows that you are always available; your boyfriend will relax his efforts of making any commitment. Get him out of this comfort by being less available without giving any excuses. Let him realize that you have an independent life that is not tied up with his.
Watch your words
Talking about your expectations in a marriage will not make your boyfriend decide to go ahead and propose. If you want him to think of marriage, you should not talk about the topic at all. In addition, avoid doing anything that brings the idea of marriage, including the books and magazines that you leave lying around.
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