How to Make A Man Want You More

So you met this great guy, spoke with him a several times, obtained his number and most importantly – got his attention, what do you do from here? Most women would try in vain to make him fall in love with them by endlessly calling them up for dates now and then. Do realize that men get turn-off by women who seem to be desperate. Instead try talking to him casually to next time you meet him, take it in your own stride, and do not rush things.

“The more you interact with someone, the more they'll like you”, confirms an expert in human behavior. Numerous studies show that repeated exposure to a person, place or thing makes us like it more (the only time it doesn't hold true is if our first reaction to it is negative). So try not to be conservative or evasive in the beginning. Instead, find lots of excuses to spend time with him from the START, it makes him interested in you.

Now, here comes the complicated part. Just when you're convinced you've won them over and they like you, start being a little less available. And then even less, until they hardly see you at all. This is explained in detail below.

You've now effectively put the 'law of scarcity' to use. We all know this one: when people always get something that they want, it diminishes in value in the long run. If every time you opened your front door in the morning, there is always a fresh stack of gold bars at your doorstep, you will not see them as precious after awhile would you?

The law of scarcity only makes them want you. Be around and then not around and they'll want and like you more. He will be practically craving for your presence!