“Let’s Still Be Friends” What Does He Mean?

There is so much headache after a relationship end. If you didn’t have any real warning then your mind is going to be teeming with all kinds of thoughts. Why being dumped suddenly? You did get it, What did you do? What actually is going wrong with him? "Lets be friends?"

So how confusing is it when he tells you he wants you to stay friends? He’s just cut you out of his life and now he’s saying he wants you in it. Does he really still love you, does he just like you or is he just feeling guilty and trying to let you down gently? Or maybe he’s just crazy and doesn’t know what he wants at all.

In all probability, he really doesn’t know. He felt there was a problem in his life and he convinced himself that it was his relationship with you. So he ended it. But that didn’t seem to fix anything. All he can see now is that he had something, which he threw away. He realizes he still wants you around. He can’t believe that he wants things to be the way they were so he thinks the only way to keep you in his life is on the terms of friendship.

To you that seems like a pretty poor second to what you had before. But he doesn’t realize it looks that way. From his point of view, it demonstrates to him and to you that he still has feelings for you. That means you need to capitalize on them.

If you want to get back together, you need to work out what it was that made a good relationship seem bad. All couples go through hard times but the secret lies in understanding your strengths together and eliminating your weaknesses. But asking you to be his friend could well be the first sign that you’re destined to be together again.

Top Reason Why Men Leave Loving Relationships

Many women have no idea why men leave? It’s the one thing women will ponder on many days after a relationship ends. “Why did my man leave me?” If you have ever wondered why a man leaves you especially when it isn’t apparent, you may wonder if you have a chance to win them back. The answer to why your man left may surprise you but you can take it to heart and start to win them back.

Women may not realize it but men, even when they do the dumping in the relationship, feel pain. They have the need to talk with someone about how they feel. Sometimes they speak to friends; sometimes they go to a therapist. They are always asked what made them leave the relationship in the first place. The answer they give is very important especially if you want to know how you and your ex can get back together.

What was the answer to this ever-important question? “I never could make her happy”. Rarely is cheating a cause for the man to walk out on the relationship nor is having a huge argument another reason.

It’s typically the feeling that no matter what he does; he can never make his woman happy. For that, he simply gave up and walked out on the relationship. It doesn’t matter if that’s really true…it’s how he felt.

Why is it so important for a man to feel like he’s making his woman happy? It’s a little thing called ego that lets him know that he is admired and is important. He wants to know that everything he does is special to his woman, despite any hardships they may have.

If he feels like his life means something to his woman then everything else going on pales in comparison. This is why it’s so important to make a man feel love and needed so it’s your job to make him feel like he is making you happy.