Commitment Phobic Men - 3 Surefire Ways to Know If His Ready to Commit

One of the areas where we generally fair better than men is in sharing our feelings. This is something that many men find a lot of difficulties with. It can be very frustrating if you are dating a man who does not talk about what he feels at all. However, there are signs that he will display unconsciously that will help you to determine what is going on at the back of his mind and heart. If your boyfriend is ready to commit, these signs will let you know what is happening long before he actually says it.

If you are interested in seeing your relationship moving to the next level, you should take note of the following things.

1. He introduces you to his acquaintances
One of the ways through which you will determine whether your boyfriend is a commitment phobic man and if he is serious about your relationship when he introduces you to the people who are close to him. A man who is just flirting around will rarely, if ever, introduce you to important people in his life. This is especially the case when it comes to members of his family. So, when your boyfriend takes this step, it is a clear indication that he is confident about making deeper commitment with you.

2. The frequency of his contacts with you
A man who is serious about taking things further will get in touch with you every now and then. At times he will call you just to hear your voice. This shows that you feature prominently in his mind.

3. He asks about your opinion
A man who is in love with you and would like to make a commitment will tend to ask for your opinion about things that matter to him. This is a way by which he is opening up to you, allowing you to share part of his life, and only a serious man will do this.

These signs will show that your boyfriend is getting ready to walk down the aisle with you.

However, if you do not see such signs, you should not lose heart. There are definite steps that you can take to influence him to be more serious. If you are convinced that he is the man you should spend the rest of your life with, you do not have to wait and get him to propose. You can urge him towards it, but subtly.