Showing posts with label win his heart. Show all posts
Showing posts with label win his heart. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Moving On Putting the Past Behind

Are you fresh out of a tumultuous romance and you want to know how to move on from the relationship? Did you love him with all your heart and you can't believe he deceived you as he did, and your heart is completely broken? Do you need to move on from this relationship before the heartache drives you mad?

It can be easy to simply allow ourselves to fall into a pit of despair. Nothing seems bright in our future and we can't even begin to imagine ever being happy again. Take a quick look at what you can do to help you through the pain and heartache of a broken romance. You, too, can move on from a relationship.

Toxic Endings

If you've just experienced a break up that blew up out of nowhere, the shock of the split can literally leave you crumbling to the floor. When a woman is happy and in love and her man suddenly announces that he wants out, it pulls the rug right out from under her and she doesn't even know where to turn.

These types of sudden break ups can make it all the more difficult to move on from the relationship because we've not had a problematic romance to warn us of what was to come.

Cling to Someone

This is a time in your life when your close friends will be of great help. Don't be afraid to spill your guts and tell them what you're going through. Break ups can be incredibly humbling experiences and it can be difficult to come straight out and admit that the man we loved no longer loves us. But opening up and talking about the relationship and the pain will greatly help you to recover.

Busy Times

Locking yourself up in your bedroom might be all you're good for for a number of days, but then you need to give yourself a real kick in the pants and move on. Get back into the activities and social settings that you've always enjoyed. Sure you're going to have to slap on a heartbroken smile for the first few times, but that smile will grow more genuine with every outing.

This can be particularly satisfying if you find yourself getting absorbed in an activity that you'd set aside in order to concentrate on your relationship. A tiny hint of vengeance will push you to take advantage of your freedom and finally enjoy the things that truly thrill you.

Look Ahead

It's so easy to stay caught up in the past. We cling to the memories of a relationship that didn't work and refuse to see what's coming up in the future. Though it may be difficult to believe right now, the pain will diminish and your view of the future will brighten.

Give yourself plenty of time, but don't hide away for too long. Life goes and, and believe me, you will find the strength to move on from this relationship. Speak to anyone who has been through a difficult break up and there's a good chance they'll tell you that it's the best thing that ever happened to them because they subsequently found true love.

Stop being afraid and face the bright future you could have with the man you're meant to really be with.
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Sunday, October 17, 2010

Discover The Power Of A Compliment - by Kara Oh

One of the most meaningful things you can say to a man - and even win his heart - is simply to offer a sincere compliment. A compliment about his appearance, something he's done, or created can make his day. What you get back is usually a smile, sometimes a conversation and an assumption that you are a caring person. Not bad for such a small effort.

If you're a person who compliments people it shows them that you're aware of others and care about them. If you never compliment anyone it could mean many things: you may have grown up in a household where compliments were not offered; you may be insensitive; you may be too wrapped up in your own thoughts to notice others; or you may not care about others. If you never offer a compliment, look at the quality of your relationships. It would be safe to guess that you're not happy with them.

Men rarely get compliments about their personal selves. Chances are good that you're the first person to compliment them in a long time. If a man gets a compliment at all, it will generally be about their outward accomplishments such as work or sports.

Women get compliments about their appearance, their clothes, their new hair style, their smile, their eyes, etc., from both men and women. Men rarely get that kind of attention. So give the man you're getting to know a compliment and see how he lights up. It can be something as simple as, "I'm so impressed with how calmly you handled that situation." Or, "I like how smart you are. You challenge me and I appreciate that." Or, "That's a beautiful suit and it fits you so well."

The easiest way to tell a man you care, or to get noticed and remembered, is to give him a sincere compliment, especially if it's about something he probably doesn't get much attention for. Pay attention to what he admires about himself and let him know that you noticed and he'll think you're pretty special.

Attention Women: When you get a compliment receive them graciously. When you discount a man's compliment it makes him feel awful. It makes you look bad and eventually, you won't get any more. I've often asked men about this and they tell me that once a woman discounts his compliment instead of appreciating it and letting him know he made her feel good, he soon quits doing it. Practice receiving compliments graciously with your women friends. It feels a whole lot better. Try, "Well, thank you. That's so nice of you to say (or to notice)." Or, to have some real fun, say, "Thank you for noticing," which tells the other person, in a playful way, that you appreciate yourself. It's a great confidence builder.

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