Sometimes friendships grow in a strange way. There seems to be mountains and valleys to pass. At one moment your boyfriend may seems very doting, apparently thinking about you every minute. The next moment he will appear to have forgotten all about you, and you will wonder whether he still feels the same way towards you.
The main problem comes from the different ways in which men and women view communication. While we will be quick at letting our feelings be known and get very close to those we are emotionally attached to, the case is almost opposite for the men. When they are feeling their heartstrings being pulled, many men will hardly show it at the initial stages. They are likely to appear to be pulling off instead.
A major area that usually suffers from such reaction is communication through phone calls. While we enjoy communicate with the guys a number of times every single day, the case is different with them. So before you mess things up, you should be aware of how to handle the situation.
Don't call
It is natural for you to experience an urge to pick up the phone and call your boyfriend. This seems to be the best course of action. Unfortunately, things are usually not as straight forward as they appear. You risk giving a very wrong impression of yourself. While you will just be expressing your heartfelt love for him, you may appear to be quite desperate for affection. An important guideline is not to be quick on the phone.
Don't wait for his call either
Men will generally use the phone fairly often during the initial stages of your relationship as they ask you for a date. He is likely to call simply to say you were on his mind. However, when he is assured that you are already deeply involved with him, he will not call as frequently as he used to.
Since you have already known that you should avoid calling your boyfriend, should you just sit around waiting for him to call? No. Go on with your normal life without closing yourself up. If he really cares about you, he will call.
Make him miss you
As you go on with your life, you will in turn give your boyfriend ample space. When there is such a space between you, he will miss you and then he will pick up the phone.
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