Showing posts with label get a man interested in you. Show all posts
Showing posts with label get a man interested in you. Show all posts

Friday, April 3, 2009

4 Signs That Shows A Man Likes You

Every woman is anxious and tensed to know the signs if the man she loves is having the same thinking and feelings liking her. It is the greatest unanswered question bugging her mind waiting to be answered and she will find all ways and means to find that answer.

(1) Courteousness

By the way a man is courteous towards you doesn’t mean that he is interested in you. He might be polite, help you or even wear a smile on his face every time you pass by. But that is no indication that he likes you. Many men try to impress women through their polite behavior and remember they impress all women and not just you. So how then can you find out whether he is much into you or not?

(2) Curious Factor

Many women think that when men are curious they have a special feeling toward them, but it is no indication to know that they like you. Many men are curious about women for no reason at all. They might already be in love or is looking to pass time and so they might kill their time asking about you. They might not even remember the next time you two will meet. So don’t get excited by this misconception thinking the man likes you.

(3) Dating Invitation

Unless you get a first dating invite there is nothing to indicate whether he is interested in you or if he likes you. If he invites you for a date it might be to test you or see if you are really the one for him. So what you do and how you behave in your first date is what will decide your future with this man. So plan well, be yourself and be smart at your natural best. Behave in such a way that he is interested to know about you more and thus will invite you again for another date or any social event. Don’t reveal your full identity as yet and try to minimize your details so that he will be curious to know more about you.

(4) His Body Language

A man will want to stay in touch with a woman as much as he can when he likes you. So when that happens surely he likes you and adores you. He will be all around you and will want to hold your hand or touch you. That’s when you can be definitely sure that he has a liking in you.

Don’t be possessive or expect too much from a man. Respect and love yourself first and never loose your self esteem. Always remember to respect one another’s personal space and grow as individuals. Getting a man you love to like you might be hard but sustaining him and his love is much harder. So act wisely, think sensibly and love infinitely.

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Smart Moves To Get A Man Interested In You

(1) Get Him Attracted to You

Just like in any war, good planning and perfect execution is the key. The purpose here is to get the man so attracted to you that there would be no other options for him - but to get interested in you. Men by nature love to chase women, which means you should not be the one pursuing him or at least it should not look like you are the one pursuing him.

(2) Let Him Pursue You

The first strategy is to be very subtle. This does not mean you don’t show any signs of interest in him but instead, be very careful not to show interest more than necessary but at the same time you have to make him think he is the one that is pursuing you. The best way to do this would be to put yourself visible within his sight. When you feel even the slightest of response from him, pull back a little. It should look like there is no void in your life even without him. Try to keep yourself occupied and be available to him every time.

(3) Independence

Declaring your feelings for him might put him off and he may not even value your love. Make him think that he has to work hard to get your love so that he values it.. The next strategy would be to show him that you are independent. Men just love women who are emotionally, financially independent. Small things like not making him pay all the time for a meal could work wonders.

(4) Men Need Space

You should be careful not to get too emotionally attached and forget about other aspects of your life. Men usually lose interest in the woman who seems to be completely focused on him and has no other things in her life that’s interesting. Men are scared of women who are very dependent on their them emotionally all the time. Do not get carried away and be realistic.

Following these simple steps can go a long way towards getting mens' attention.